Degraded


Filthy, torn and uncleaned.
Guilty, anger, and hurt.
Friends one moment,
A victim the next.

"Are things cool?"
No, but I say, "Yes."
Don't want to deal
Don't want to deal
We are no longer friends,
Leave me alone.
Begone!

Used my trust
to gain something only you wanted.
Now that you did the deeds,
I hope you're satified.
I'll always remember.
You made another scar on my life.

Just leave me alone.
Just leave me alone.

You made me re-lived my past.
I gave in.
Scared? Yes!
But don't concern yourself with me.
It was you who didn't hear , "No."
It was you who didn't want to stop,
but, "Five more minutes".

I didn't want to in the first place,
And you kept pushing.
I thought you were my friend
And now I know why you were in the first place.

I feel degraded, dirty, unfaithful.
I'm nothing more than a sexual object.
Leave me alone.
No friend should ever make me feel this way.
Friends?No.
And I mean NO.

Now I can't sleep at night.
Not even in my own home.
I don't feel safe anymore.
I don't feel okay.
I feel used,
degraded but most of all betrayed.

Leave me alone.
Leave me alone.
Begone!

Written By: Gloria M. Matthews
Copyright 2009

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